ATTENTION women seeking more clarity and meaning in life: Discover the SECRET POWER in your story that will turn your pain and suffering into joy and fulfillment.
Here’s How You Can Use The Power In Your Story
To Turn Your Suffering Into Outer Success
And Inner Progress Using The Same System I Did…
…Without Spending Years To Figure It Out
From: Joyce Friesen
Novalis Integra Center for Healing and Transformation
Dear Sister,
So What’s Our Story?
Our story is everything in our past up to this present moment. It’s all the threads woven together into patterns that make us unique.
It’s:
- What happened to us
- Our actions and reactions
- Sensations of pain and pleasure
- Thoughts and intentions
- Our emotions—our joys and sorrow, our frustrations and ecstasy
- Our core beliefs and those of our parents and our culture
- Our hearts dreams and souls mission
All the patterns from these aspects of our life make up the five levels in our being—body, mind, emotions, heart and soul. When we interrupt the flow between the levels we are out of balance and so we suffer.
We then use our ego or physical mind to give negative interpretations or perceptions as to why we are out of balance and so create masks to protect ourselves.
The Issues Surface
Take a moment to think about your life. Most probably what popped into your mind was a negative experience or physical complaint.
If it was a negative experience, you have just uncovered one of your wounds.
Wounds zap our power.
They stick around waiting to be healed but in the meantime they end up as our roadblocks to power.
And so our pain shows up as issues in different ways.
On the psychical level it turns into illness or symptoms of various kinds
- Hormone problems such as PMS, hot flashes or night sweats, thyroid issues or diabetes
- Osteoporosis or osteopenia
- Allergies caused by association with negative events
- Chronic fatigue syndrome
- We become overweight. We can’t resist that chocolate chip cookie even though we’ve told ourselves we’re going to be strong
On the mental level our negative thoughts and beliefs haunt us like a broken record.
On the emotional level we suppress our emotions through addictions so we become numb, but the charge remains.
When our emotional trash can is full we explode, withdraw, get depressed, or attack someone.
We see other emotional stressors appear in our:
- Abusive and co-dependent relationships
- Conflict with others
- Anger, jealousy and resentment
- Rebellion against authority believing someone “out there” is preventing us from acting freely.
On the psychic level pain occurs when we don’t listen to our heart and soul. It unfolds as fear and insecurity about life, along with confusion about our purpose.
Have you ever wondered why so many people now are into anti-aging?
So We Search For Solutions
Like you, I sometimes felt I was on a gerbil wheel treading ever faster and yet seeming to go nowhere, never getting to the cause of the pain.
That’s because I was using band aid solutions, which only cover up problems.
You may have tried some of the following crutches or quick fixes like I did. If you have, how well are they working for you?
- Dieting to lose weight
- Using drugs—over the counter: pain medications, cold and flu remedies…..
- Using drugs—prescription: HRT, bio-identical hormones, anti-depressants, high blood pressure medication, high cholesterol medication…..
- Using drugs—illegal or street: marijuana, cocaine…..
- Using drugs—legal: alcohol, tobacco, or caffeine
So why do our issues keep coming up? It’s because as human beings we “need” to complete or resolve an issue or task once it has been initiated.
This lack of closure arises from an unfinished task or unresolved issue.
Our mind is wired to remember uncompleted or interrupted tasks and issues better than completed ones, so it keeps bringing them up.
This effort of continually keeping the issue or event in our awareness is what drains our energy.
So what happens is we continue to consciously or unconsciously choose to focus on the negative until we rewrite the story.
Wouldn’t it be cheaper, less stressful and healthier to change our lifestyle to get rid of the problem so we don’t need the crutch?
I challenge you to re-read this section and let it really permeate you. This piece alone can change your life if you take it to heart whether or not you take Woman’s True Power Workshop.
What’s The Key To Resolution?
We’re all searching either consciously or unconsciously to give psychological and sacred meaning to our lives and we haven’t found it yet.
If we had, our lives would be full of joy and fulfillment, no matter what happens in our outer life.
This doesn’t mean that nothing is working in our lives.
It just means that it’s really not our fault that our solutions haven’t always worked.
We have been taught so many things, but have we ever been taught how to live our lives to our full potential.
Here’s why.
As children we believe everything as The Truth, but was it The Truth?
We had no choice. As adults we do, but we still believe the same stories.
Think of a belief you had as a child that is still with you and zaps your energy.
Here’s a few more reasons why our life may not be functioning as well as we would like. But there are two even bigger ones.
1. We have been taught that something we experience physically can be resolved through physical means only. Sometimes it can, when it is only a nutritional imbalance.
But many times it can’t. If losing weight was only a matter or dieting and exercise, how come we have a multi-billion $ weight loss industry?
Beneath every pain, illness and negative experience in our story there is a suppressed emotion caused by a negative thought or belief. Let this sink in and you will understand why dieting alone doesn’t work.
2. We don’t understand we are unique. There has never been nor will ever be anyone who has the same experiences, same capacity and same understanding as you. So how can “one size fit all”?
We have been led to believe through mass advertising and marketing that if we just take this magic pill all our problems will be solved.
But how long is it before the magic bullet loses its magic?
3. The “quick fix” is closely related to the “one size fits all”. We have been taught to believe that everything can be fixed quickly without effort, discipline or perseverance on our part.
The challenge here is to stop scurrying around looking for that elusive quick fix—that one pill, one course, one therapist, one food, one eating style that will fix all our problems.
If there really was a quick fix, would we have so many unhealthy depressed people in our society?
But even if we take up the challenge and we’ve done everything we know to do, if we are wise, we will still surrender our actions to the Divine for further guidance and manifestation.
4. Confusion about what really works. Our lives are so frantic and intense that we don’t take time to research and figure out what is going to work for us.
Nor do we value ourselves enough to give ourselves permission to experience and explore our healing.
5. Believing that the pain of living with an issue is less than dealing with it. I believe this is one of the reasons why so many women tell me they’re tired and fatigued. They’re holding so much blocked energy in their bodies that they have none left with which to live life.
6. We find fault with ourselves and others by criticizing and complaining instead of taking complete responsibility.
Now here’s one of the two biggest reasons why we don’t deal with our issues and end up with so much pain and suffering in our lives.
We’re afraid of change. The only people who really enjoy change are wet babies. For most people, change creates trauma and often builds a wall of resistance, reluctance and even rebellion.
So what is underlying this fear? I believe there are two factors. We are afraid of the unknown and we are afraid of what we believe cannot be known.
Instead of being gripped by the power of fear, we need to invoke the power of courage.
Courage that we can face anything that comes to us. Courage that we can change whatever we want in our lives. But to do this we need to change our beliefs by asking the right questions.
The second biggie is doubt. If you look at why you’re still using various crutches instead of enlightening your issues, you will probably say you doubt that you can make the necessary changes.
You don’t feel that you have the will or determination to resist that chocolate chip cookie or whatever.
I invite you to look at a few of your doubts and fears and see if this is true.
These two factors—fear and doubt and how we approach them will determine all the success and progress we make in our entire lives.
Woman’s True Power Workshop
Will Empower You To Face Your Challenges
And Find Meaning In Your Story
The purpose of our story is to give us the impetus to grow and evolve.
When we discover the true meaning of the events in our lives and make sense of them, we find the purpose as to why we were born.
Each ending becomes a new beginning. Each last step becomes a first step. This is the process of transformation and transcendence.
But it can only happen if we come from a place of awareness and conscious choice instead of wallowing in self pity and victumhood.
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As Mourning Dove, a west coast Salish woman said, “Everything on earth has a purpose, every disease an herb to cure it, and every person a mission. This is the Indian theory of existence.” |
We are all on a journey to our ultimate destination—the discovery of our true Self.
On this journey we have only two roles to play: learn how to love God the Creator and serve God the Creation.
What you will experience in the Woman’s True Power Workshop is part of a system that works together to create a harmonious balance between body, mind, emotions, heart and soul.
Systems make it easy to take action.
Whether you take this Workshop or participate in any other my other services or purchase my products, each one builds on the other—some are sequential while others fill in the blanks of the tapestry on how to live an integral life.
I’ve spent the past 25 years discovering and fine tuning this system. I’ve created this from my own experience, learning and research and now I’m passing this on to you.
It’s a system based on transforming those parts of your story you don’t want to keep and building on what you’ve already accomplished. Besides my support you will learn from your teachers within—your heart, your soul, and God.
You just tap in and have the system work for you. It will build on and amplify all the great progress you’ve already made.
This system is based on quite a few universal principles, but in the end the only thing that matters is whether you’ll get the results you dream of.
Is this you?
- You’re confused as to which way you should go.
- You’re not as fulfilled as you want to be.
- You have some physical issues and challenges
- You haven’t achieved all the goals you want to
If you answered “yes” to any of these, then the Woman’s True Power Workshop is for you. Join me on this journey so we can learn and grow together.
In Woman’s True Power we will be focusing on four components of the system which will support you on your journey to Self discovery and empowerment.
Once you have experienced these component, you can use them to solve any problem or issue you are faced with.
And you can go deeper and deeper into yourself without fear and doubt as you spiral upwards to greater heights.
1. Understand Your Cosmic Feminine Role
You will discover the source of your power. It comes from understanding your role in the cosmos and embracing it so you can become who you were created to be.
We are Mother Earth and our role is to embody the cosmic divine feminine to heal and transform our own lives so we can inspire others to do the same.
You will discover the four aspects of the Divine Mother. You can then determine which one you resonate most with so you can invoke Her assistance at any time.
2. Understand Who You Are
The Enneagram is a power tool for self discovery. It is based on nine universal personality types.
It’s an evolutionary tool, which means once you know your number, you will see yourself on a continuum—where you are now and where you need to go for your fulfillment.
After you’ve registered, I will send you the Questionnaire to determine your Enneagram number. Once you’ve returned the completed Questionnaire to me I will send you your number along with basic information about it.
The Enneagram helps us go beyond the skeptical, critical, monkey pinching mind and teaches us how we can become connected to our feeling hearts and our soul.
When we connect the heart with the head we can take enlightened action, but only if we allow the heart to be in charge.
Is it any wonder that heart disease is the number one killer today. I don’t feel it is, since many of us are disconnected from our loving hearts.
The Enneagram will teach you how to love yourself and discover the love you are underneath the many layers or armouring that you’ve put on to protect your fragile inner child.
What’s more, it helps us uncover our authentic selves beneath the contradictory masks we wear. We can then move through our issues and evolve to a higher level of existence, like climbing a spiral staircase.
In the Woman’s True Power Workshop we will use your Enneagram information to look at the biggest issue you’re facing today.
You may have heard the expression, “As above so below”.
When our universe was created, the Supreme Being followed a four step process to bring forth the world of sound from eternal silence. This four step process embodies THE creative principles of the Universe.
I have discovered that this four step process is fundamental to every act of creation here on earth as well. Coming into your power as a woman is to consciously invoke this process.
Very few people today use this process consciously, although unconsciously we see this process in operation in diverse areas as the stock market cycle and the act of sex.
3. 4 Step Transformation Process
One part of this 4 step process is taking your unfinished business and turning it into strength.
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As Sri Aurobindo said, “Try to release the strength within you, try to bring it forward, so that everything you do may be not your doing, but the doing of the Truth within you.” |
Strength is power. The power in our story is like two sides of a coin; one side we lose energy or power, the other we gain. We already talked a lot about losing power, now it’s time to look at how we gain power in our lives.
We begin by asking some key questions about an issue such as what happened, how did it feel, what was your response or reaction.
But what’s most important is how are you going to change the script so you don’t repeat the same pattern or the same issue doesn’t come up again. A powerful way is through reframing which is writing a new story.
Through this process the constant movie reruns in our mind will be reframed to create a new and life affirming outcome.
When we rewrite those parts of the past that no longer serve us and don’t give us joy, we find a new identify and become powerful as we accept, embrace, grow, and learn a new life.
In preparation for the Workshop, you may want to give some thought as to which “big issue” you would tackle.
Besides learning how to rewrite the past you will learn the other three parts of this process. What’s most critical too, is you will learn the detrimental effects when any part of this four part cycle is disrupted.
4. Be in community
Being in a community and applying the principles of Woman’s True Power is in itself powerful.
But the problem with most workshops is that there is no continuity afterwards. You experience wonderful things, have a great feeling and are determined to keep going.
But does that often really happen?
As a Bonus for participating in the Woman’s True Power Workshop you will receive a 3 month FREE Charter Membership in the Wise Woman’s Fan Club, a community of women consciously evolving to a higher level of existence.
So don’t delay. Registration is limited to 21 inspired women. Rregistration will close on September 27, 2010 or when 21 women register, whichever comes first.
Your Investment in Woman’s True Power only $147
+ HST for Canadians
Here’s a Bonus for women who register before September 22th
An e copy of the James Allen classic “As A Woman Thinketh”
This ebook will help set the tone for the Woman’s True Power Workshop and provide nourishing food to feed your mental life.
You will begin to see that you are a creative power and not the victim you’ve often felt yourself to be. You will see the hidden aspects of your being, out of which circumstances will grow, so your head and heart can walk hand in hand.
So, here’s the message to inspire you—what you think and do is pivotal to what happens to you. You aren’t the victim you think you are. I’ll support you to move forward!
I know that women like to do things with their friends. So I’ve created an amazing special offer for you and a friend to take the Workshop together.
Or Come With a Friend for just $250 + HST for Canadians
For just $250 + HST two of you can share your journey together. Send an email to: joycefriesen@NovalisIntegra.com with your name and the name of your friend and I will send you a PayPal invoice.
Here are the details:
When: The Woman’s True Power Workshop will be held on October 3, 2010 from 9 – 5
Where: The University of Ottawa, 1 Stewart Street (School of Social Work).
Added Value: A gluten free vegetarian lunch will be provided, along with morning and afternoon healthy refreshments.
Unconditional Guarantee: At the end of the Workshop if you don’t feel you’ve received 100% value I will refund your entire registration–no questions asked
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Topic: Woman’s True Power Dialogue
Time: Monday, September 13th at 8:30pm Eastern
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